I read the following article by Reb Bradley in the Virginia Home Educator Magazine
and was challenged by it. I appreciate Mr. Bradley's humility in
admitting mistakes he's made as a dad. I see some of these tendencies in
my own life and many of the observations he makes line-up with things that God has been teaching our church recently.
Whether or not you homeschool, I'd encourage you to read this article
prayerfully and ask the Holy Spirit to help you examine your motives in
your parenting.
Exposing Major Blind Spots of Homeschoolers by Reb Bradley
In the last couple of years, I have heard from multitudes of troubled
homeschool parents around the country, a good many of whom were
leaders. These parents have graduated their first batch of kids, only to
discover that their children didn't turn out the way they thought they
would. Many of these children were model homeschoolers while growing up,
but sometime after their 18th birthday they began to reveal that they
didn't hold to their parents' values.
Some of these young people grew up and left home in defiance of their
parents. Others got married against their parents' wishes, and still
others got involved with drugs, alcohol, and immorality. I have even
heard of several exemplary young men who no longer even believe in God.
My own adult children have gone through struggles I never guessed they
would face.
Most of these parents remain stunned by their children's choices,
because they were fully confident their approach to parenting was going
to prevent any such rebellion. Keep Reading...
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