The conversation took place just yesterday. A young man told me his
dad, a pastor, recently committed suicide. He talked about the pain his
father experienced in ministry as well as the intense loneliness.
Though suicide is not an inevitable outcome, I do know the number of
pastors experiencing loneliness is high—very high. I hurt for these
pastors, and I want to help in any way I can. Perhaps my nine
observations can be a starting point for a healthy discussion on this
important matter.
Three Causes . . .
The three most common causes of loneliness shared with me by pastors are insightful:
1. Church members do not want to get too close to a pastor. Actually
it works both ways. The pastor is seen as the spiritual leader of the
church. For many, it’s hard to get close to someone who holds a
perceived lofty position.
2. The pastor is accustomed to giving instead of receiving. In
healthy relationships, both parties give and sacrifice. The pastor is
accustomed to giving and ministering. Sometimes it’s hard to be on the
receiving end. Continue at Thom Rainer
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