Among the contradictions of my childhood experiences in churches was
the fact that, on one hand, there was the famous portrait of Jesus by
Warner Sallman—meek and mild verging on the effeminate—and, on the other
hand, the appearance of various sports figures to remind us that Jesus
was not just male but a man's man who ran the moneychangers out of the
temple with a whip.
It is hardly a newsflash that we've been
living through an era of upheaval in gender roles. Churches have been
divided over the role of women in ministry. In "Young, Restless,
Reformed" circles, a new generation is discovering Jonathan Edwards and
"masculine Christianity" in one fell swoop. Weaned on romantic—even
sentimental—images of a deity who seems to exist to ensure our emotional
and psychic equilibrium, many younger Christians (especially men) are
drawn to a robust vision of a loving and sovereign, holy and gracious,
merciful and just, powerful and tender King. As David Murrow pointed out
in Why Men Hate Going to Church (2004), men are tired of
singing love songs to Jesus and don't feel comfortable in a "safe
environment" that caters to women, children, and older people. His
critique is familiar to many: men don't like "conformity, control, and
ceremony," so churches need to "adjust the thermostat" and orient their
ministry toward giving men tasks (since they're "doers"). Men don't like
to learn by instruction; they need object lessons and, most of all, to
find ways to discover truth for themselves.
I get the point about
a "soft" ministry, especially worship, with its caressing muzak and the
inoffensive drone of its always-affirming message. It's predictably and
tediously "safe." Get the women there and they'll bring their husbands
and children. Not only has that not worked, it's sure to bore any guy
who doesn't want to hear childrearing tips or yet another pep talk on
how to have better relationships.
Having said all that, where did
we get the idea that men are insecure jerks who can't learn anything or
belong to the communion of saints as recipients of grace? And are we
really ready to identify shallow sentimentalism with "feminization" of
the church? Do godly women want this any more than men? In my
experience at least, a lot of men and women alike are devouring good
books of theology these days, especially in Reformation circles. Yet
also in my experience, women—and men—are still being distracted from
being immersed in the faith by countless exercises in "applied
Christianity" (i.e., niche studies) without much "Christianity" to
apply. Continue at Michael Horton
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