For the last twenty years thousands men from across America
struggling with sexual sin have come to our intensive counseling
workshop. Over half were pastors and missionaries.
I wish our experience was unique.
Several years ago a seminary professor told me: “We no longer ask our
entering students if they are struggling with pornography, we assume
every student is struggling. The question we ask: ‘How serious is the
struggle?’”
One missions agency told me that 80% of their applicants voluntarily
indicate a struggle with pornography, resulting in staff shortages on
the field.
Pornography is just one level of sin, a form of visual sex, or heart
adultery.
Physical adultery includes an affair, multiple affairs,
prostitution, and homosexuality. Other sexual behaviors within the
ministry are such heinous “unfruitful works of darkness . . . it is
shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret” (Ephesians 5:11–12).
To face the crisis we must correctly understand the nature of the
problem, ask God to search our own hearts, and be committed to restore
each one caught in sexual sin “in a spirit of gentleness” (Galatians 6:1).
I have pondered long and hard two questions: Why do people repeatedly return to sexual sin and why do people turn away from sexual sin?
Lured Toward Sin
First, I would say that after two decades of helping set free those
held captive by sexual sin, I’m convinced that the concept of sexual
addiction as a disease does not fully identify the seriousness
of the problem. If we are going to get serious about the problem in the
church we can ill afford to be misled in our thinking. The real problem
is hidden deep within. The least bit of lust is an indication of vast
corruption in the human heart. It is an enslavement that cannot be
broken through any form of behavior management, recovery program, or
counseling. The inside is so ravaged by sin that we can do nothing to
change it. Continue at Harry W. Schaumburg

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